Taking Another Step

Aliens don’t abduct my mind. I do.

There I was the other night, lying in bed. Sleep deprived. Having to play phone tag with my physician because she’d failed to renew my prescriptions as promised the day before.

It was if gravity was reversed and ripping me from the earth, my arms flailing and reaching out for a handhold.

That’s when it started…

Why must this always happen?

I’ve so much to do and now I’m wasting time with this.

I need to sleep, but I can’t because she didn’t do what she was supposed to do.

If I don’t get enough sleep I’m going to have another relapse [pulmonary] and then I won’t be able to get anything done at all and it’s all the worse because she didn’t do her job. This isn’t the first time…!

And then I caught myself.

I became aware.

My brain was turning those statements over repeatedly until time became meaningless.

Aware, I felt the mattress beneath me, the sheet over me, the air moving in the room, the cats purring beside me…

Although such a Body Scan isn’t intended to relax me, in the end it did when I shifted my mind out of “doing” mode and into “being” mode, for negative thoughts while in doing mode become a destructive spiral.

I intend to keep working until there’s eventually no negative cycle to stop.

Thich Nhat Hanh in Vught, the Netherlands, 2006

Thich Nhat Hanh in Vught, the Netherlands, 2006 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Peace can exist only in the present moment. It is ridiculous to say “Wait until I finish this, then I will be free to live in peace.” What is “this”? A diploma, a job, a house, the payment of a debt? If you think that way, peace will never come. There is always another “this” that will follow the present one. If you are not living in peace at this moment, you will never be able to. If you truly want to be at peace, you must be at peace right now. Otherwise, there is only “the hope of peace some day.”

Thich Nhat Hanh, The Sun My Heart

Whether I’m doing—or doing nothing—I want peace within. It’s already there. I just have to find it and hold on.

I continue to read the book I discovered…about halfway through it. There are exercises to practice and so my progress has slowed, but that’s okay. Speed isn’t what’s important here.

It’s the results that matter.

Thus far I’m pleased with what I’m learning: awareness, the body scan technique, and meditation thus far. It’s a good fit for me. The book, The Mindful Way through Depression – Freeing Yourself from Chronic Unhappiness, was an unexpected find via a health newsletter I receive in my email.

Cover of "The Mindful Way through Depress...

Cover via Amazon

It remains a great approach to keep depression at bay, a way that doesn’t involve denial, drugs, or distraction. A way to face it head on. Too, I liked the tone: no pressure (that’s also their approach to meditation, which lowered the intimidation factor).

As I said, this book remains a good fit and the right approach for me, but I’ll not draw any conclusions until I’m finished and have given it some time.

Whether you jog, meditate, practice yoga, seek help from quality self-help books, or see a therapist, you can break the cycle, too! The important thing is to find what works for you, or what combination works. If you’re someone who seeks a therapist please keep in mind that they’re all different personalities with different approaches. Just because one doesn’t fill your needs, another will. Keep looking.

Don’t give up.

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About Ontyre Passages

Alive and well in the Rocky Mountains. I'm a fantasy writer who also dabbles in poetry, short stories, and map making. My Ontyre tales are an alternative fantasy experience, the stories rich in mystery, adventure, and romance. Alternative fantasy? Not quite steampunk. Not quite gothic. In truth, the real magic is in those who discover what's within.
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2 Responses to Taking Another Step

  1. Christina I agree we are very complex individuals and what works for one won’t work for another. This book sounds very good thank you for sharing your insights and I wish you freedom from the black cloud.

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